Kenyan musician and entrepreneur Esther Akoth Kokeyo has once again sparked widespread discussion online following a strongly worded message warning men about sexual responsibility, protection, and the risks of reckless intimate behaviour.
In a post shared on social media, Akothee first issued a stern warning directed at men regarding interactions with their former partners, commonly referred to as baby mamas. She cautioned that such encounters can easily escalate into emotional conflict if not handled carefully.
“And you MEN STOP SLEEPING WITH YOUR BABY MAMAS we will skin you alive, some people were born with revenge as a gift,” she wrote, using highly expressive language that quickly attracted public attention and mixed reactions from users online.
She went on to broaden her message, advising men to exercise caution in their sexual behaviour beyond past relationships. According to her, careless decisions in intimate encounters can expose individuals to emotional, social, and even physical consequences.
“Men, be careful who you sleep with. We have mental cases everywhere,” she stated, warning that people should not engage in impulsive or unprotected sexual activity.
Akothee further urged men to avoid risky sexual habits, emphasizing the importance of personal discipline and protection in all intimate encounters. She cautioned against what she described as uncontrolled behaviour, saying it could lead to regret or serious consequences.
“Stop dipping your thing in every hole; it might cost you eternal peace or even get you into pieces. Si mchezo tu. Condom muhimu,” she added, strongly encouraging the use of protection.









